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Thank you so much MOA. "},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Okay. Thank you so much MOA. "},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/7474233377021232902"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/7474233377021232902"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1620795980164#c7474233377021232902","title":""},{"rel":"related","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/8422067635880678885"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 12, 2021 at 1:06 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-8422067635880678885"},"published":{"$t":"2021-05-11T12:27:40.926-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-05-11T12:27:40.926-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous May 8, 12:59 AM,\n\u0026quot;I wasn’t even su..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous May 8, 12:59 AM,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;I wasn’t even sure if he knows where i live. He also did not ask much about my past if i have past lovers after my divorced. Is this a red flag?\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ENo. If you are not experiencing a major majority of the issues discussed in the article above, you are not dealing with a narcissist.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EAs well, it\u0026#39;s extremely damaging to any relationship to \u0026quot;live in the past.\u0026quot; There\u0026#39;s no need, or healthy reason, for partners to be discussing past lovers at all. It will only bring up insecurities, cause resentments, and cause one another to begin to compare themselves to their partners past lovers.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ENot healthy at all. Partners should be focused on their future together. Not each others pasts."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/8422067635880678885"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/8422067635880678885"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1620750460926#c8422067635880678885","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 11, 2021 at 12:27 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-3208445245329715631"},"published":{"$t":"2021-05-08T00:59:59.750-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-05-08T00:59:59.750-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hi MOA. I’ve been dating a guy. Everything was goo..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hi MOA. I’ve been dating a guy. Everything was good and we are exclusive now. Then i decided to spend the night with him every weekend after 2 and half months.But i noticed this guy did not ask to go to my place at least to see or to know how i live.He loves to stay in his house since it’s still pandemic here with a curfew. But he wasn’t curios to see my apartment.  I wasn’t even sure if he knows where i live. He also did not ask much about my past if i have past lovers after my divorced. Is this a red flag? He treated my properly though,asked about my family and work,  and is consistent. "},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/3208445245329715631"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/3208445245329715631"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1620449999750#c3208445245329715631","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 8, 2021 at 12:59 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-4499510629790699733"},"published":{"$t":"2021-05-04T18:25:58.768-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-05-04T18:25:58.768-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous May 4, 3:42 AM,\n\u0026quot;Would it be that ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous May 4, 3:42 AM,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;Would it be that he replied like that because his ego was hurt or he is just a total Player?\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIt\u0026#39;s hard to say. Could be either one or both. There are insecurities showing here on his part though.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;He told me that hope that i could find someone better [he\u0026#39;s showing that he\u0026#39;s insecure and didn\u0026#39;t feel good enough, and thinks you deserve someone better] and that we can still see each other [because he wants sex] but not seriously anymore because he is not a serious person [then he\u0026#39;s either lying now, or was lying previously]. I was shocked by this reply.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EInsecure individuals respond in this manner in an attempt to throw you off and dent your confidence. It\u0026#39;s as if to say, \u0026quot;That\u0026#39;s okay, I wasn\u0026#39;t serious about you anyway.\u0026quot; It\u0026#39;s a false mask to hide their insecurities, and it\u0026#39;s also a sign of emotional immaturity.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EA mature man with nothing to hide would react to that by:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E1) Attempting to reassure you that he\u0026#39;s a good man that can be trusted.\u003Cbr \/\u003E2) Would\u0026#39;ve shown you that he DOESN\u0026#39;T want you to give up on you by telling you that he wants a different outcome and asking what he can do to make that happen.\u003Cbr \/\u003E3) Would\u0026#39;ve offered to unfriend or unfollow all these nobody women he doesn\u0026#39;t even know on social media in an effort to do the work of being one half of a healthy relationship.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThis doesn\u0026#39;t mean he\u0026#39;s a bad man.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBut it does show that he lacks the emotional maturity to maintain a healthy relationship, and is also too immature to do the right thing in order to move the relationship forward.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHe\u0026#39;s likely just not ready to do the work or make the sacrifices necessary for a mature, committed relationship :-("},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/4499510629790699733"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/4499510629790699733"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1620167158768#c4499510629790699733","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 4, 2021 at 6:25 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-8465733548100256938"},"published":{"$t":"2021-05-04T03:42:17.934-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-05-04T03:42:17.934-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hi again MOA. I was the woman who asked you advice..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hi again MOA. I was the woman who asked you advice on April 20- about social media.I finally told him to stop seeing him and wish him the best. He replied to me that when he was in Thailand he met many women there and also went to a hostess bar that is why there are many women on his IG. But i did not buy it coz before i meet him he only added few women and during the time we dated i saw it was more and more, he also added just normal random girls that can be contacted anytime. I think there was an intention behind it-maybe a plan B.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHe also told me that hope that i could also find someone better and that we can still see each other but not anymore serious because he is not a serious person. I was shocked by this reply. I thought that we was really serious coz there was no red flag other than his online behavior. He acted like a gentleman and he even told me that he saw me as a long term not am adventure. He took me to a proper dates outside and cooked me food. In his pasts he told me he has a lot of girlfriends during 20s , he was been serious but no future as he was still young. I thought really that he was a serious person. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThis man is an Aries - european guy and i am Asian. Would it be that he replied like that because his ego was hurt or he is just a total Player ? 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PS happy you are back.  "},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/8722242848600653031"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/8722242848600653031"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1620001305186#c8722242848600653031","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/07086146324544124066"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-496202867"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 2, 2021 at 8:21 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5575958990590394488"},"published":{"$t":"2021-05-01T13:28:59.417-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-05-01T13:28:59.417-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hi Moa, i am just here reading all your articles a..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hi Moa, i am just here reading all your articles and reply. What about this..... i have dated many guys online , i let the Universe handling the rest while staying positive. I acted as a high value woman everytime i meet a man ,not playing hard to get but acted like a lady , enjoying the moment. But it turns out the men i meet just wanted to use me fo casual flings. But i am glad i discovered it always earlier before it’s late.  I’ve been single for almost 8 years and believe me i am manifesting something and focusing to improve myself but most of the men i’d met are low value men. Maybe because most of them are in dating apps. I can see it’s very rare to find a high value ,a gentleman these days. Sometimes i am thinking does Universe even hear me? But gladly i can able to see it and walk away immediately who doesn’t serve me. And your articles also helped me a lot. But do you think there is still someone out there for me? If there is why it takes too long :( (Sorry for my English ) Good day ! 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He\u0026#39;s a heck of lier. Let him feel waste towards you. That how important you are. Fix your self\/improve your appearance. And make him crazy about you"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/3594510490208306615"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/3594510490208306615"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2007\/08\/revenge-on-aries.html?showComment=1619865459918#c3594510490208306615","title":""},{"rel":"related","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/7232400078961040540"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/00631133287588959663"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2007\/08\/revenge-on-aries.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5037786932767515524","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/5037786932767515524","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-131116134"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 1, 2021 at 6:37 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-3789005130823912054"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-30T01:13:17.995-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-30T01:13:17.995-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"really appreciate the work that would have gone in..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"really appreciate the work that would have gone into researching and compiling this final list for us, the \u0026quot;seekers\u0026quot;. I haven\u0026#39;t gone through them yet but would surely like to do so. thanks in advance!"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/6731046366072418745\/comments\/default\/3789005130823912054"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/6731046366072418745\/comments\/default\/3789005130823912054"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2009\/11\/25-zodiac-astrology-horoscope-blogs.html?showComment=1619759597995#c3789005130823912054","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Dr. Prem Kumar Sharma"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.premastrologer.com\/"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2009\/11\/25-zodiac-astrology-horoscope-blogs.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-6731046366072418745","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/6731046366072418745","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 30, 2021 at 1:13 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-2663823647337748608"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-28T12:37:21.480-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-28T12:37:21.480-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"In other words, you have to BE what you desire - i..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"In other words, you have to BE what you desire - in order to RECEIVE it.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBe love. Be a treasure. Be happy. Be fulfilled. And the universe will rearrange itself through various circumstances and individuals that it sees fit as those able to deliver that back to you.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThe details and the process in which the delivery takes place are the concern of the universe. Your only concern when it comes to manifesting is the belief and behavior portions.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBe it. Receive it.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThink of yourself as a transmitter sending out waves of energy into the universe as if you\u0026#39;re placing an order. Think of the universe as the warehouse that\u0026#39;s preparing your order. You don\u0026#39;t have to worry about who\u0026#39;s going to deliver it. Or what truck they\u0026#39;re going to deliver it in. Or how it\u0026#39;s going to reach your home. Or what obstacles and delays it may or may not encounter along the way.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EAll you need to do is place the order and eagerly - with positive excitement and belief - wait for it to arrive. And think about how happy you\u0026#39;re going to be with your new item, picturing in your mind\u0026#39;s eye all of the wonderful things you\u0026#39;re going to do with it. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThe universe handles the rest :-)"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/2663823647337748608"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/2663823647337748608"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619627841480#c2663823647337748608","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 28, 2021 at 12:37 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-108586810948096009"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-28T12:37:06.121-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-28T12:37:06.121-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous April 28, 5:24AM,\n\nGood to be back, dea..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous April 28, 5:24AM,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EGood to be back, dear :-) We can all thank my ex husband for my return LOL. Recent events in his life led me to understand and realize that I spent 12+ years with a narcissist. Which then led me to realize that the emotional and psychological abuse from that personality type is REAL - and dangerous.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EWhich then turned it into a message that needed to be shared with others :-)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;Can you please talk about the law of attraction and how to manifest the right man in our lives in your upcoming posts?\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EI will absolutely consider doing so.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHowever, in the meantime, I\u0026#39;ll share a few points that are incredibly important regarding manifestation. In order to manifest properly, one must understand that it\u0026#39;s not about the details - the who, what, when of the outcome.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIt\u0026#39;s about the FEELINGS and BELIEF. And then the universe handles the details for you.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EWhat I mean by that is this. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EDon\u0026#39;t focus on the man. Focus on how having a worthy man in your life would make you FEEL. And then BELIEVE that to be true -- acting as if it\u0026#39;s already HAPPENED (pretending and behaving as if he\u0026#39;s already in your life).\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThat last step is THE STEP that\u0026#39;s the whammy in bringing about manifestation - BELIEF (it\u0026#39;s coming; it\u0026#39;s just a matter of time) followed by ACTION (behaving as if he\u0026#39;s already here).\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ESo in order to manifest properly, you must not think or focus on the details, and instead focus on the feelings. For instance, don\u0026#39;t think things like \u0026quot;I want a man that\u0026#39;s tall, dark and handsome.\u0026quot; Instead, think things like \u0026quot;I AM loved. My man treats me like treasure. He makes me very happy and fulfilled.\u0026quot; And then behave as if he\u0026#39;s already in your life, you\u0026#39;re happy and fulfilled and loved like a treasure.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBecause what you think is what the universe delivers to you, in order to create proper balance.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIf you simply think in terms of \u0026quot;want\u0026quot; - then the universe only delivers more of it, more \u0026quot;wanting.\u0026quot; If you think about a tall, dark and handsome man - then the universe may deliver one. But he may not be the right one for you that treats you as you desire to be treated. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBUT, if you think you\u0026#39;re loved like a treasure, treated like one, and you\u0026#39;re very happy and fulfilled - the the universe delivers exactly that ... treasured love, happniness and fulfillment. And it\u0026#39;s the universe that determines the who, what and when form to deliver that to you in.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EDoes that make sense?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EContinued ...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/108586810948096009"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/108586810948096009"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619627826121#c108586810948096009","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 28, 2021 at 12:37 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-4517541984368250329"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-28T05:24:58.637-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-28T05:24:58.637-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hello MOA. I\u0026#39;m so glad to see you back again! ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hello MOA. I\u0026#39;m so glad to see you back again! It\u0026#39;s been a long time since the last post you wrote and I thought you\u0026#39;ve abandoned this blog. I hope you are doing well. Can you please talk about the law of attraction and how to manifest the right man in our lives in your upcoming posts? I know that there are tons of articles on the internet explaining this concept but I would love to read your saying on this one. I\u0026#39;ve changed a lot to a better version of myself thanks to your writings. God bless you \u0026lt;3"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/4517541984368250329"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/4517541984368250329"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619601898637#c4517541984368250329","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 28, 2021 at 5:24 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-2161936555259243606"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-26T13:10:04.047-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-26T13:10:04.047-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Thank you so much for your response. I have since ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Thank you so much for your response. I have since heard from him again on Friday and he said, \u0026#39;nothing is final\u0026#39;. So, yah, sounds like he\u0026#39;s going to make a comeback. Idk if he\u0026#39;s got cold feet or really seeing someone. I guess if I knew he was seeing someone it would make me more angry and more like feeling easier to let him go. Should I respond to him that it actually is final or just not respond at all?"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/659544291851217335\/comments\/default\/2161936555259243606"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/659544291851217335\/comments\/default\/2161936555259243606"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/11\/dating-when-why-how-use-no-contact-rule.html?showComment=1619457004047#c2161936555259243606","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/03821375672614219946"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/11\/dating-when-why-how-use-no-contact-rule.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-659544291851217335","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/659544291851217335","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-936761760"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 26, 2021 at 1:10 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-8857142606784477588"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-26T10:23:49.221-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-26T10:23:49.221-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous April 23, 1:48PM,\n\u0026quot;What is the pro..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous April 23, 1:48PM,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;What is the proper way to say goodbye to him and to make him realized that i didn’t want his behaviour online?\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ETell him the truth.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ETell him that his online behavior is not impressive, and makes you very uncomfortable. Explain to him that you\u0026#39;re seeking someone that\u0026#39;s a bit more serious about women and relationships, and that while you like him a lot -- you don\u0026#39;t feel you\u0026#39;ll be able to trust him or his online behavior in a relationship. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ETell him that you want to feel secure with the man in your life.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EWish him well, don\u0026#39;t offer to remain friends (it won\u0026#39;t work so just cut the chord), and move forward."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/8857142606784477588"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/8857142606784477588"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619447029221#c8857142606784477588","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 26, 2021 at 10:23 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-4960784342298495669"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-26T10:19:25.872-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-26T10:19:25.872-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous April 26, 7:40PM,\n\u0026quot;Is it okay to s..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous April 26, 7:40PM,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;Is it okay to suggest? If yes what is the proper way or amount? Is it comes as masculine ? I am afraid that if i do it more he will not plan anymore where to go and will just wait for me instead.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIt\u0026#39;s okay to make suggestions. But I\u0026#39;d offer them all at once, and then sit back and let him choose from there each week so he can feel like a man by taking the lead."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/4960784342298495669"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/4960784342298495669"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619446765872#c4960784342298495669","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 26, 2021 at 10:19 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7772323631763613711"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-26T07:40:14.080-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-26T07:40:14.080-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hello MOA.I am seeing a guy for a month and half a..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hello MOA.I am seeing a guy for a month and half and it is exclusive. It is understood that we are seeing every weekend and for him since it’s pandemic he doesn’t care if i see him Saturday or Sunday. But sometimes he doesn’t plan what to do since it’s pandemic we have no much options. But sometimes i asked him what to do for him\u003Cbr \/\u003ETo decide then he gave me an answer. My question is....is it okay to suggest to him places to go? In fact i have more ideas then him. Lately,i was too excited that i told him immediately the places to go for next date and we went there. He liked it too. Is it okay to suggest? If yes what is the proper way or amount?  Is it comes as masculine ? I am afraid that if i do it more he will not plan anymore where to go and will just wait for me instead. \u003Cbr \/\u003EThanks for your advice, as usual MOA 😊"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/7772323631763613711"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/7772323631763613711"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619437214080#c7772323631763613711","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 26, 2021 at 7:40 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5309926589995039001"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-23T13:48:42.332-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-23T13:48:42.332-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Okay thank you very much for your advice. He said ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Okay thank you very much for your advice. He said that he is serious with me but adding horny girls is like not appreciating what he has in real in front of her.It will make me insecure overtime. What is the proper way to say goodbye to him and to make him realized that i didn’t want his behaviour online? I am really grateful that there is you giving me advice . Thanks again a lot ! "},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/5309926589995039001"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/5309926589995039001"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619200122332#c5309926589995039001","title":""},{"rel":"related","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/2604835539959035074"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 23, 2021 at 1:48 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-87893284431481969"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-23T13:46:35.997-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-23T13:46:35.997-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous April 20, 2:39PM\n\u0026quot;Am I being a foo..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous April 20, 2:39PM\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;Am I being a fool?\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ENo, not being a fool. But do be wise about it.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ETWICE now, this man has shown you that he\u0026#39;s too emotionally immature to be a good match for you, and to handle this relationship maturely.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ETWICE now, he has bailed on you.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EFool me once, shame on you. Fool me TWICE, shame on me.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHe\u0026#39;s fooled you twice now. If you take him back a third time and he does this again, I hate to say this but ... you\u0026#39;ll only have yourself to blame. Because he\u0026#39;s already shown you that he\u0026#39;s not mature enough for this, and you\u0026#39;re deciding to proceed anyway.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThat\u0026#39;s a risk that you\u0026#39;re taking knowingly. Which means that if it happens again, you cannot blame him next time, ya\u0026#39; know?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EI think maybe it\u0026#39;s best to seek a mature man that wants what you want -- and is emotionally mature enough to follow through on it.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIf you give this a third chance. It could end up being a repeat of the first two chances you\u0026#39;ve given him :-("},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/659544291851217335\/comments\/default\/87893284431481969"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/659544291851217335\/comments\/default\/87893284431481969"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/11\/dating-when-why-how-use-no-contact-rule.html?showComment=1619199995997#c87893284431481969","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/11\/dating-when-why-how-use-no-contact-rule.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-659544291851217335","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/659544291851217335","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 23, 2021 at 1:46 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7739140935957195375"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-23T13:39:59.009-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-23T13:39:59.009-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous April 23, 1:37PM,\n\u0026quot;What to do when..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous April 23, 1:37PM,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;What to do when a man says to me that he will call me later to talk but did not call but text me instead? I was expecting it but am a bit disappointed. I’ve been seeing him for 2months and this is the first time he did not what he said.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIf it\u0026#39;s only been this one time, you can safely overlook it.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHowever, if he continues to do this in the future, you have two options:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E1) Do not respond to the text.\u003Cbr \/\u003E2) Respond to the text and say, \u0026quot;Call me.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIn otherwords, if this continues ... do not make yourself available to him unless he follows through with what he\u0026#39;s originally stated he intended to do."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/7739140935957195375"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/7739140935957195375"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619199599009#c7739140935957195375","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 23, 2021 at 1:39 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-2604835539959035074"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-23T13:37:17.240-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-23T13:37:17.240-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous April 22, 5:43PM,\n\u0026quot;i will be in th..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous April 22, 5:43PM,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;i will be in the state of anxiety every time i see his IG and Facebook full of porny looking girls ... As you are like my mentor...what is the best thing that i can do?\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EMe personally, if I knew I would never trust the man and the relationship would be full of nothing but anxiety and worry -- I would proceed no further.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;And if ever i meet another men they would have an IG again and does the same thing.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ENot true. Not every single human being, or man for that matter, has an IG account. And out of the ones that do, not every single man that has one is using it for visual porn purposes.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EI\u0026#39;m sorry dear, but this man sounds very childish and as if he\u0026#39;s not ready for a real relationship. If he were ready for one, he\u0026#39;d be focusing his energy on that and not living in la-la-land fantasizing on IG. Especially when he\u0026#39;s got the real thing - in real life - right in front of him. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ENever settle for less than you deserve - or less than what will make you happy."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/2604835539959035074"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/2604835539959035074"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619199437240#c2604835539959035074","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 23, 2021 at 1:37 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-1294883878072545785"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-23T03:24:34.264-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-23T03:24:34.264-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hello MOA. I really like reading your posts.I have..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hello MOA. I really like reading your posts.I have a question. What to do when a man says to me that he will call me later to talk but did not call but text me instead?I was expecting it but am a bit disappointed.  I’ve been seeing him for 2months and this is the first time he did not what he said. \u003Cbr \/\u003EThanks"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/1294883878072545785"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/1294883878072545785"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619162674264#c1294883878072545785","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 23, 2021 at 3:24 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7511181880246823273"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-22T17:43:31.004-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-22T17:43:31.004-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Thank you MOA.I think i will be in the state of an..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Thank you MOA.I think i will be in the state of anxiety every time i see his IG and Facebook full of porny looking girls :( Plus today i saw that he even commented like “i am falling in love” . I think every guy has fantasies but his behavior in social media sounds like a childish to me and a turn off . I never spoke to him about it and he also like posting pictures of himself with nice fashion clothes. The way he treats me in person reminds me to remain confident, to stop looking at his profile but still some part of me asking if i can really trust this man, even i want to stop looking there is still times that i am curios to look at his social media. We are in 10 dates now. I really don’t know if i let him go or stay and be strong. And if ever i meet another men they would have an IG again and does the same thing. As you are like my mentor...what is the best thing that i can do ? "},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/7511181880246823273"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/7511181880246823273"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619127811004#c7511181880246823273","title":""},{"rel":"related","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/3260143190242520124"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 22, 2021 at 5:43 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-3260143190242520124"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-22T14:02:49.435-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-22T14:02:49.435-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous April 20, 10:46AM,\n\u0026quot;Is this a red ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous April 20, 10:46AM,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;Is this a red flag? Should i be worried about this?\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ETo me, it IS concerning. And the reason it\u0026#39;s concerning is ... would you ever really trust this man? Or would you be in a constant state of anxiety instead?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBecause without trust, it\u0026#39;s pointless to continue further.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThink about whether or not being in a relationship under those circumstances would make you happy or not. And whether or not you\u0026#39;d be relaxed and trusting in that situation, or anxious and worried constantly instead.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBecause the answer to your question lies within :-)"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/3260143190242520124"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/3260143190242520124"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1619114569435#c3260143190242520124","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 22, 2021 at 2:02 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-4079205633816272657"},"published":{"$t":"2021-04-20T14:39:46.360-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-04-20T14:39:46.360-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hi. So my story goes like this. 2 years ago I was ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hi. So my story goes like this. 2 years ago I was involved with a younger man by 17 years and we saw each other for 7 months. It ended abruptly because of a couple of very embarrassing things that happened on his part and I think out of his immaturity and embarrassment he kind of ran and hid. 1.5 years later, he got over it, reached out to me and we started again in November. It was definitely different this time around in that it felt more emotional, he stepped it up in ways he hadn\u0026#39;t before because I believe due to the age difference. I think he was worried about how it would look, etc. We spent Valentine\u0026#39;s Day together and I swear I thought he was going to tell me he loved me. He said everything but the word and seemed hesitant and wanted to say something else but he held back. He told me things like he named off all the qualities about me that he really appreciates, that if I were only pretty and nothing else, he would not be there, that he takes it all into consideration and that I\u0026#39;m different from other women. He kept saying my name until I finally asked him what it was he wanted to say. He told me that he really, really likes me and asked if I felt the same. It was a great time. It has been great since then. We spent the last weekend of March together and one of those nights I told him I loved him, rolled over and fell asleep. It just naturally came out of me and I wasn\u0026#39;t longing for him to say it back. He seemed fine with it. We had a great time the following night and then he got busy that week with moving and work. He works a lot and only has every other weekends off. The week after that his parents visited. I had mentioned to him out of curiosity what his parents would think of us, if they would be judgmental? I\u0026#39;m wondering if these things along with my birthday coming next week, put pressure on him and scared him. I say this because he texted me last night out of the blue telling me that he needs to cancel our plans this coming weekend and that \u0026#39;to be fully honest I recently reconnected with someone coincidentally so I don\u0026#39;t think it\u0026#39;s fair to string you along. It\u0026#39;s only right I don\u0026#39;t\u0026#39;. The key here is \u0026#39;stringing me along\u0026#39;. I may be wishfully thinking, but I think that\u0026#39;s the core of it and that he\u0026#39;s just scared and hasn\u0026#39;t really started seeing someone. I just don\u0026#39;t see how he could turn his feelings off like that so quickly. Am I being a fool?"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/659544291851217335\/comments\/default\/4079205633816272657"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/659544291851217335\/comments\/default\/4079205633816272657"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/11\/dating-when-why-how-use-no-contact-rule.html?showComment=1618943986360#c4079205633816272657","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/11\/dating-when-why-how-use-no-contact-rule.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-659544291851217335","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/659544291851217335","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"April 20, 2021 at 2:39 PM"}]}]}});