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He’ll ge..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Yeppppppp they do that when they’re hurt. He’ll get over it. 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That’s Aries men in general. That’s why I don..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Yep. That’s Aries men in general. That’s why I don’t date em. They’re annoying in a similar childish way virgos are annoying. \u003Cbr \/\u003EThey make good bed partners tho. Just sleep with me and throw me out"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/4301245419982983679\/comments\/default\/5467559466844832208"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/4301245419982983679\/comments\/default\/5467559466844832208"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/01\/experiences-with-aries-male.html?showComment=1625467452063#c5467559466844832208","title":""},{"rel":"related","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/4301245419982983679\/comments\/default\/8837803020495725964"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/01\/experiences-with-aries-male.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-4301245419982983679","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/4301245419982983679","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"July 5, 2021 at 2:44 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-438001574631278940"},"published":{"$t":"2021-07-05T02:42:06.118-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-07-05T02:42:06.118-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Yep! 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We started off as really good friends. He opened up to me unlike any other friend he has. He is a very charming and outgoing person, but noticed he can be flaky. Not very good at planning either. We were very good friends (I called him my BFF) for at least 3 years. I was always intrigued\/attracted by him, not in a sexual way, but wanting to always spend time with him. Despite our age gap, we have many similarities. He was also my go-to when I had male issues. I\u0026#39;ve never considered anything romantic with him, since it was such a good friend (also due to age gap... my nickname for him was Papa). Anywho, fast forward 3-4 years later and a couple romantic relationships after, I would say he started to pursue me. However, he was also pursuing my friend! We then were involved in a relationship, but granted, we were both still partying and hanging out with other people, more for me to make him jealous since he seemed to be entertaining other females (in my perspective). Anywho, it was bringing me down a dark path and our romantic relationship became toxic to me, since I am the type of person to want commitment and no gray area in my relationships; boundaries need to be set when in a relationship. I told him that I can no longer be in a relationship with him since it is not suiting to what I want (clear black and white commitment)...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EAnywho, I told him we need to cool off and not see each other for a little bit if we were to maintain our friendship. I am a Christian and really gave my heart to God at this time and prayed him out of my life, romantically, and for healing. I was living my single life, and a couple of weeks later, he messaged me again saying he wanted to talk. We talked and I guess we cemented a committed relationship? Anywho, he was more transparent with me, and I with him. We tried our best to remain committed and not play games with each other. We still hung out with friends of the opposite sex, but made sure we are both comfortable with it. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EFast forward, we have a six year old, and also been married for six years, 3 years friends first, 4 friends in a committed relationship, overall been together (mix of the above) for  13 years. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EI have not seen any message boards with a positive outlook for a Scorpio female and Sagittarius male relationship. It is true that, like what many others have said, it has been exhausting, but seriously, what relationship is easy? A relationship involves two different people, and like a dance, have to learn to move with each other to keep the dance going. What has been working (so far) is for myself, praying and putting God first, when I feel like letting go of the relationship, I get on my knees and pray for His guidance on our marriage. And like all relationships, to go back to what brought us together in the first place. We do not hold anything in, and tell each other EVERYTHING. Also, we are okay that we are not together all the time. We still have our own lives, friends, and interests, outside of our relationship, and we are ok with that. I think if a lot of relationships prioritize their commitment first, put God in it, and the requirements to keep your self-image healthy, relationships will work, no matter what sign you are."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/1123145011615994770\/comments\/default\/9005761831769416449"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/1123145011615994770\/comments\/default\/9005761831769416449"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/02\/experiences-with-sagittarius-male.html?showComment=1625439653142#c9005761831769416449","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2012\/02\/experiences-with-sagittarius-male.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-1123145011615994770","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/1123145011615994770","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"July 4, 2021 at 7:00 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-9108610215559240470"},"published":{"$t":"2021-07-03T21:52:23.603-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-07-03T21:52:23.603-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Not generous with time or money,getting ahead mean..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Not generous with time or money,getting ahead means stepping on others and using people as resources. They say they\u0026#39;re generous because they cannot see themselves truly for the harm they do taking from and using others. Unless committed to the goal of self evolving they stay like a child, and demand all attention, money, fortunes success be contributed and attributes to them and they\u0026#39;re \u0026quot;greatness\u0026quot; head in the clouds, feet in the grave, they gamble with health, love, life if they think they\u0026#39;ll gain recognition and glory and reap all treasures for their continued success. They are their own worst enemies if they do not evolve, and stay conceited and deluded about what true values are."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/9108610215559240470"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/9108610215559240470"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2007\/08\/revenge-on-aries.html?showComment=1625363543603#c9108610215559240470","title":""},{"rel":"related","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/8008963198812731093"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2007\/08\/revenge-on-aries.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5037786932767515524","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/5037786932767515524","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"July 3, 2021 at 9:52 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5082506465960156432"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-25T08:46:34.653-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-25T08:46:34.653-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Anonymous Jun 18, 12:27 PM,\nI\u0026#39;m not a profess..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Anonymous Jun 18, 12:27 PM,\u003Cbr \/\u003EI\u0026#39;m not a professional, however, having dealt with many narcissism myself in those around me I\u0026#39;m of the mind that narcissism in general runs along common themes -- the 4 stages of the cycle of abuse.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EAnd trying to defend yourself really only gives them even more ammo to conduct a smear campaign with. Meaning, if you become emotional, angry, frustrated or any of the above in a public way towards them or the situation, they will only use that as fuel. They\u0026#39;ll then be able to say things like, \u0026quot;See, I told you she\u0026#39;s crazy.\u0026quot; Or, \u0026quot;She\u0026#39;s too emotional.\u0026quot; Or, \u0026quot;She\u0026#39;s too unreasonable.\u0026quot; Things along those lines.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBasically, they\u0026#39;ll use your response to then gaslight you and others into thinking you\u0026#39;re the problem.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ESo the best way to deal with them, is to use tactics like \u0026quot;gray rocking\u0026quot; - steering clear of them, flying under their radar, not reacting to their attempts to unsettle you, and remaining calm and in control of yourself at all times.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EOnce they realize you\u0026#39;re not going to play into their game and provide the response they intended to receive from the actions they took -- it\u0026#39;s no \u0026quot;fun\u0026quot; for them, and eventually, they find a new target. One that tends to respond easily in the manner they want them to, by reacting to their antics in the ways they expect.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EDon\u0026#39;t be predictable like that. Don\u0026#39;t react. Because that\u0026#39;s exactly what they\u0026#39;re after (so they can then escalate the situation).\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ESo what is gray rocking? It\u0026#39;s basically holding a \u0026quot;Meh\u0026quot; attitude towards them. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ELike as in, \u0026quot;Do what you gotta\u0026#39; do. Say what you gotta\u0026#39; say. Tell who you gotta\u0026#39; tell. Doesn\u0026#39;t matter to me. Because none of it will be affecting me or the boundaries I\u0026#39;ve set in place.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EYou\u0026#39;re just like a big gray rock with no opinion and no reaction. You\u0026#39;re not jumping into battle. Not responding. And not defending yourself. You\u0026#39;re giving them absolutely NOTHING further to escalate the situation. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EAs the gray rock, you\u0026#39;re not permitting them to control you or your emotional responses. YOU are clearly signaling that you are in control. Not them."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/5082506465960156432"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/5082506465960156432"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1624625194653#c5082506465960156432","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 25, 2021 at 8:46 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5135533485633544513"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-19T06:34:23.605-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-19T06:34:23.605-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Goodness! I’m dating one abs he is as arrogant as ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Goodness! I’m dating one abs he is as arrogant as you! Most unkind sign ever."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/5135533485633544513"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/5135533485633544513"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2007\/08\/revenge-on-aries.html?showComment=1624098863605#c5135533485633544513","title":""},{"rel":"related","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5037786932767515524\/comments\/default\/5538112311542293191"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2007\/08\/revenge-on-aries.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5037786932767515524","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/5037786932767515524","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 19, 2021 at 6:34 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5783157001602556399"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-18T12:27:31.888-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-18T12:27:31.888-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hi Mirror,\n\nThank you for the article! I wanted to..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hi Mirror,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThank you for the article! I wanted to ask you your thoughts on how to deal with a covert narcissist with a strong martyr complex?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EMy potential mother in law is starting a smear campaign after I told her my boundaries of I only wanted to talk to her if there is an emergency. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EDealing with a narcissist is hard and draining and there’s a reason I didn’t want to live under her roof. Now I’m getting punished for it. "},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/5783157001602556399"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/7695093434064051084\/comments\/default\/5783157001602556399"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html?showComment=1624033651888#c5783157001602556399","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7695093434064051084","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/7695093434064051084","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1845609142"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 18, 2021 at 12:27 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-3791301912569188872"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:20:52.627-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:20:52.627-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"I also started to noticed that my BF isn\u0026#39;t bei..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"I also started to noticed that my BF isn\u0026#39;t being engaged in my life. it\u0026#39;s always \u0026quot;I\u0026quot; with him and not \u0026quot;we\u0026quot;. I started to feel like an after thought. I\u0026#39;ve mentioned to him few times that I liked to be asked to go with, random kisses\/hugs, hanging out\/running errands together. Doing things that couples do. I understand we\u0026#39;re in this pandemic. We don\u0026#39;t have to stop anywhere, but let just go for a ride. To get out of the house. Nope, he sees that as an issue.he\u0026#39;s response would be like you showing me how much incompatible we are. I told him then I don\u0026#39;t think that im the woman for you.  awkward silence. then he will say that he wants our daughter to be in a two parent home. we had bought some things together in this house. we\u0026#39;ve had other disagreements and arguments. he showed me his anger issues. he would throw things or attempt to destroy something that he probably bought. he would curse and yell at me. oh no! I don\u0026#39;t get down like that. we should be able to have mature grown up conversations. i have told him repeatedly to not talk to me that way, that i promised myself to never let a man talk to me that way again.we\u0026#39;re both in our 40s. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EI moved out with our daughter. Everyday hasn\u0026#39;t been easy. It\u0026#39;s been very emotional for me. We\u0026#39;re still both trying to adjust. I find myself always crying feeling guilty for moving, separating my \u0026quot;family \u0026quot;, breaking his heart. I\u0026#39;m feeling so sad that he didn\u0026#39;t even attempt to fight for our relationship and me staying. Plus, with the toxicity between his daughter and I, I honestly don\u0026#39;t see it getting any better had I decided to stay. I will never come before his daughter. And me constantly feeling like I have to beg to be praised, compliments, ask me how I\u0026#39;m doing or feeling or if I need something makes me feel like he doesn\u0026#39;t want me. I felt like I was a single mother living in a house divided yet while he did the bare minimum. I wasn\u0026#39;t happy with him and our relationship and I feel that I need to focus on myself and our daughter and really find my happiness and peace. Now when he came to visit our daughter, I was so emotional and tears roll down my face. Now he wants to be engaged with her get down on her level to play with her. He wasn\u0026#39;t doing that while we were living together. Then he asks me why I\u0026#39;m crying. I told him that I needed to remove myself. I asked him what happened between us and our relationship.  It had shifted. He said that it probably shifted when I called his daughter a monster to her face. I was hurt because he has called her way worse things to her face.he told me that I am the outsider! He\u0026#39;s the parent so he can do that. I help pay the bills in this house, grocery shop, cook and clean ans yet I\u0026#39;m an outsider. That furthered my unhappiness with us. im being blamed for everything, I\u0026#39;m not feeling loved. I\u0026#39;m feeling like we\u0026#39;re just there coexisting. That\u0026#39;s hurtful! I\u0026#39;m know relationships go through its rough patches but I felt like it was just me putting effort in to the relationship. I never wanted to break his heart or trust even though he hurt me betrayed and hurt me for so long.  I feel bad for leaving. I\u0026#39;m scared! Being a single mom this is not what I desired to ever be. He told me that it was a mistake dating me. But he doesn\u0026#39;t regret our daughter. Any tips for getting over this guilt? Any tips to start healing? I need something"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/3791301912569188872"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/3791301912569188872"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html?showComment=1623284452627#c3791301912569188872","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Tiff720"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/00067024612884152935"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-2718605116227691728","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/2718605116227691728","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-382975029"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 9, 2021 at 8:20 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-264749627050617563"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:20:45.417-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:20:45.417-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"now his daughter is 15. since we\u0026#39;ve been livin..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"now his daughter is 15. since we\u0026#39;ve been living in this house. it hasn\u0026#39;t been no walk in the park. I am constantly asking for them to pick something up, clean something up.  common sense that I shouldn\u0026#39;t have to. then there has always been tension between his daughter and I. for one I am not trying to be her mother. I should be the fun person but we never got to that. she is very disrespectful! My BF mother told him that his daughter needs some chores and responsibilities.  I agreed. I never knew of a 15 yo that did not have any chores or responsibilities. she\u0026#39;s messing up badly in school. her dad tells her that he hates school so what do you think she\u0026#39;s going to do. duh!! he doesn\u0026#39;t believe that his words affect his daughter mind you again they have a very toxic relationship.  we\u0026#39;ve come to disagreements a few times but this last time I believe broke it for me. I was so tired of constantly asking\/requesting to pickup cleanup after themselves when we have a now toddler that likes to put things in her mouth and the constant disrespect from the both of them. I don\u0026#39;t know the things my bf is telling his daughter. I have to go to him if i want his her to do something. However there would be times,  I didn\u0026#39;t awake him so I\u0026#39;ll just clean it up and tell him about it later. we got into an argument something that was not my intent but his daughter started mumbling under her breath so that I could hear her saying *** me etc. I grabbed my baby and told her I don\u0026#39;t want my baby to be subjected to this type of behavior and you better be lucky I haven\u0026#39;t yoked your ass up. then My BF jumps in and tells me that that is his child. you don\u0026#39;t say that to my kid. we living in a house divided. this was\/is not my type of home environment I want to raise our daughter in. so the house was tense environment for days. i have decided to  move out. my soul is not feeling good. my BF says his daughter was wrong. I suggested family counseling and of course he feels that wont work. I never got an apology from his daughter.My bf never has my back when it comes to his daughter and I. I get it that\u0026#39;s his daughter. he created the division in the house. I have to come to him about his daughter. I mean common sense that if you don\u0026#39;t want me saying anything to you then clean it up. that\u0026#39;s all I ask. but that\u0026#39;s not how it went. \u003Cbr \/\u003EContinue 4..."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/264749627050617563"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/264749627050617563"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html?showComment=1623284445417#c264749627050617563","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Tiff720"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/00067024612884152935"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-2718605116227691728","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/2718605116227691728","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-382975029"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 9, 2021 at 8:20 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-1824637746945965331"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:20:16.169-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:20:16.169-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"our sweet little baby spent 79 days in nicu. I spe..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"our sweet little baby spent 79 days in nicu. I spent my entire maternity leave going back and forth to the NICU. There would be times that after leaving nicu and getting into his truck I\u0026#39;ll just burst into tears. All I\u0026#39;ll get from him was could you please stop crying. Or when we get to the house I would run to the bathroom full tears crying. Not once did he console me, comfort me. I should\u0026#39;ve known that was a red flag but I wasnt thinking about that. this was a painful experience for me. I dont wish this on any woman. then we were able to bring baby home the same day our state went on lockdown. now I\u0026#39;m back to work yet working from home. my bf house was not a pleasant environment to stay and too small for us all so we decided to move into a much bigger place. now we\u0026#39;re living in this new place, at first I didn\u0026#39;t realize it that they were letting their dog go to the bathroom in the basement and just leave it sitting there oh I became livid. I was so disgusted. I told them both that I want my security deposit back, dog owners pick up after there animals and they don\u0026#39;t go to the bathroom in the house. and when it\u0026#39;s time to turn on the heat I don\u0026#39;t want that god awful smell coming through our vents. plus we live in an upscale neighborhood and I think the landlord would be very upset if they knew there was a dog in this house and the house was being neglected. I told them that I talked about people like them. yall don\u0026#39;t deserve to live in a nice environment and house. so they cleaned up their animal mess.  now they started letting the dog go to the bathroom outside. here we go again now they letting the dog poo on the deck. oh no! wait a minute. I don\u0026#39;t want to open the windows\/blinds to see dog crap disgusting! I would have to ask EVERYDAY about them picking up after there dog.This was becoming tiring. Then my BF would get irritated at me for always asking for them to pick up there dog mess. say that I want them to clean it up when I want them to. Saying that I am trying to control him. Not when they get ready to do it.I just never understood why have a dog and not want to be a proper owner. they don\u0026#39;t walk the dog, they don\u0026#39;t groom the dog. his daughter keeps the dog in her room, the dog has pissed on her bed. That mattress hasn\u0026#39;t been replaced either so of course you know her room smells. I haven\u0026#39;t seen her wash her clothes weekly. Her responsibility is to clean the main bathroom since that\u0026#39;s what she uses but she hasn\u0026#39;t done so. So I told my BF if he could keep the bathroom clean.My mom and his mom saw first hand the lack of help im getting around the house while im nursing and working from home. I refused for the dog to come into the areas of the house where my BF and I and baby will be. \u003Cbr \/\u003EContinue 3..."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/1824637746945965331"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/1824637746945965331"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html?showComment=1623284416169#c1824637746945965331","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Tiff720"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/00067024612884152935"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-2718605116227691728","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/2718605116227691728","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-382975029"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 9, 2021 at 8:20 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-3309873389411515926"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:19:32.212-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:19:32.212-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Fast forward, now the end of October 2019 and my B..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Fast forward, now the end of October 2019 and my BF suggested I move in with him and his daughter since I was struggling with my pregnancy.I thought it would be a good idea to combine household\u0026#39;s. I ignored all of the red flags. I was skeptical at first because they were not the cleanest.Not good dog owners; much neglect. I mean the dog would crap on the livingroom floor or the family room floor and they\u0026#39;ll just leave it sitting until they were ready to pick it up. There would be a foul stench that they have become accustomed to. OMG that was disgusting! yet I managed to let them know that that was haphazard. So BF would mop the floors to hide the smell for only a little while. My BF had to throw out his couch because the dog pissed and poo and ripped it apart. the dog is not trained. his daughter room had a horrible stench and there was trash,dirty dishes, dirty clothes,period stain clothes, bed was Bloody murdered.  it looked liked a horrible crime scene. I just didn\u0026#39;t understand! When she would used the bathroom and if she was on her cycle, she would leave blood on the toilet seat. I was told by my BF mom that she had talked to her about it. Well apparently nothing changed with that convo. However, when I moved in and she did that, I immediately woke her out of her sleep and talked to her. I told her ladies check themselves after using the bathroom.  If they created an oops on the toilet we wipe it up. Then there was a time she put a used sanitary napkin in the kitchen garbage all exposed. Im pregnant and saw it and almost puked. I said disgusting outlook. So her father asked her why she did it, she lies and says it wasn\u0026#39;t hers.  Then he tells her don\u0026#39;t do it again.  so i tried to show her how to properly dispose the sanitary napkins. My BF said he tried talking to her about keeping her room clean and he\u0026#39;ll even clean it and to no good turnout. then he tells me that she\u0026#39;s just a kid. So I decided to help her clean her room one day and I bought some new bedding and a rug to make it girly and some air freshener. Oops that didn\u0026#39;t last very long. I didnt understand. so I ended up going into preterm labor the day after Christmas.  I gave birth to our daughter 7 weeks early. my sweet little baby was rushed to nicu  immediately because she was born with an umbilical cord hernia. then two days later I was rushed to the hospital because I had developed postpartum eclampsia. I was hospitalized for about a week. My BF was right by my side. he\u0026#39;s not a bad guy, he is just clueless, lazy and stuck in his ways. \u003Cbr \/\u003Econtinue..."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/3309873389411515926"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/3309873389411515926"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html?showComment=1623284372212#c3309873389411515926","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Tiff720"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/00067024612884152935"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-2718605116227691728","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/2718605116227691728","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-382975029"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 9, 2021 at 8:19 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-3568707994875574928"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:19:00.311-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-09T20:19:00.311-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hi Mirror,\n\nI\u0026#39;m hoping I could get your though..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hi Mirror,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EI\u0026#39;m hoping I could get your thoughts about my current situation. \u003Cbr \/\u003EBackground: I met my BF who is a single father to a pre-teen at the time in March 2019. I moved into my condo in April 2019. By Jul 2019, I found out I was pregnant. Pregnancy was not easy for me. I struggled with serve hip pain and carpal tunnel. I couldn\u0026#39;t open a bag of chips. I met his daughter quickly while assisting him with his homework.  he was in school at the time. During that quick introduction, I recall not good energy from her. Her dad told me she had been through alot. She had lost her bio mom at 2 yo. then her stepmother and her dad divorced after 10 years and walked away from his daughter. she also lost two grandparents and from what my BF says, her bio mom people never liked her stepmother and made certain that she knew that that was a her stepmother. my BF told me that his daughter and her stepmother relationship was toxic. the home environment was toxic. His daughter behavior and attitude is down right awful! She is a liar and untrustworthy. My BF tells me all the time that he doesn\u0026#39;t trust her and that he created a monster. My BF says he raised an ***hole! Even there relationship is toxic. His mother doesn\u0026#39;t want to be bothered with her, her bio grandfather relationship is strained. She uses her dad\u0026#39;s stepmother for her personal gain. the only grandparent she is with constant is her bio mom\u0026#39;s mom. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003Econtinue.."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/3568707994875574928"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/2718605116227691728\/comments\/default\/3568707994875574928"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html?showComment=1623284340311#c3568707994875574928","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Tiff720"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/00067024612884152935"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/01\/dumper-dumpee-dating-help-break-up.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-2718605116227691728","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/2718605116227691728","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-382975029"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 9, 2021 at 8:19 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5570869038554340774"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-09T15:59:18.638-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-09T15:59:18.638-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Oh My goodness! \nThankyou Mirror, You have literal..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Oh My goodness! \u003Cbr \/\u003EThankyou Mirror, You have literally saved me. \u003Cbr \/\u003EI am so grateful for you taking the time to give such a long reply explaining \u0026amp; that you recognised from what little i said that this is a narcissist. \u003Cbr \/\u003EIt hurt very very badly for 6 days, as you said i felt like the life was literally sucked out of me.  \u003Cbr \/\u003ENow the 7th day i feel a lot better but still it hurts, i have been watching every youtube video i can find on narcissists trying to understand their behaviour. \u003Cbr \/\u003EBut also to look at if its me attracting them and how i can recognise the signs in the future before i get hurt again. \u003Cbr \/\u003EEither there are a LOT of narcissits out there, or I attract them, still trying to work out which.  \u003Cbr \/\u003EAnyway, the love bombing in the beggining and then the slow emotional withdrawl is exactly what i experienced. It hooks you right in. You want the person back that was so attentive and charming in the beggining so you start to bend yourself to please. \u003Cbr \/\u003EI am lucky i recognised some red flags and came back to your site to reread your advice \u0026amp; ask questions. Yes i admit i made stupid mistakes despite knowing your advice. \u003Cbr \/\u003EI am guessing he must of realised i wasnt going to be TOO easy to manipulate and so he dissappeared after i asked him to call. (still radio silence 6 days later)\u003Cbr \/\u003EUnless he is waiting to see if I contact him (which i wont, although i fantasise about telling him hes emotionally dead and a narcissist if he ever contacted me)\u003Cbr \/\u003EIt hurts that he can walk away in dead silence. \u003Cbr \/\u003ESurley it must hurt a narcissit too when people walk away from them and there is just silence??? I guess they fill the void as quickly as possible with others. \u003Cbr \/\u003EAnyway a setback, but now i know what a narcissit does, the slightest whiff of any off behaviour and these men are toast. \u003Cbr \/\u003EX\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/5570869038554340774"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/5570869038554340774"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html?showComment=1623268758638#c5570869038554340774","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Huge Fan"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/17136121535141992979"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5461896356784916048","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/5461896356784916048","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1567862952"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 9, 2021 at 3:59 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-7909063294651635161"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-07T10:00:04.883-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-07T10:00:04.883-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"\u0026quot;But they are clever they groom you to like t..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"\u0026quot;But they are clever they groom you to like them for a month while they are also doing it to others.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThat\u0026#39;s because narcissists are abusers. They psychologically and emotionally abuse others in order to elicite certain responses from them to get them to fulfill their needs. And they use a ton of manipulation to accomplish that - as in, \u0026quot;If I ignore you, you will react to that by chasing me. So if I ignore you and treat you like crap, you will actually give me MORE of your attention.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThey take what\u0026#39;s good about you, and manipulate it in an malicious way - to get you to react in the manner they want that fulfills their need for constant attention and validation from others.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThat\u0026#39;s how the abusive cycle works. But in order to get you ensnared, you\u0026#39;ve got to like them alot first ... so you\u0026#39;ll put up with their crap.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EMost people grow tired of it though, or see it coming from a mile away. The games people play. Which is why a constant stream of new supply (women) is constantly being worked. The narc knows the party will soon end, so they better line up the next source of supply quickly.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIt\u0026#39;s a cycle of abuse:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EStage one: Idealization (You\u0026#39;re terrific!)\u003Cbr \/\u003EStage two: Devaluing (You\u0026#39;re flawed just like everyone else!)\u003Cbr \/\u003EStage three: Discarding (I don\u0026#39;t need you anymore, go away!)\u003Cbr \/\u003EStage four: Hoovering (But I\u0026#39;ll be back to suck you into my web of lies again!)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThat\u0026#39;s how they get you addicted, chasing them down, compromising yourself and bending over backwards for a crumb from them.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ERUN awy - do not walk - from this one, RUN. Put on your running shoes, take off, and never look back.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHe will be nothing but a constant source of disappointment for you. Because that\u0026#39;s actually his goal. Take what he can, for as long as he can, and then disappear and disappoint - so he doesn\u0026#39;t have to take accountability for his actions.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHis goal is to use others for as long as he can, for as much attention as he can. And that new girl he\u0026#39;s talking to? In a month or two, she\u0026#39;ll be in the same position as you.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThe only types of women that men like this end up with ... are the ones that lack self-esteem and are deeply insecure. They\u0026#39;re the only ones that tolerate crap treatment over and over again. And yep, the guy will use them and keep them around to continue using. But they\u0026#39;ll disrespect them right to their face as well as verbally abuse them. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EBecause they KNOW they\u0026#39;re treating them like crap, and they KNOW they shouldn\u0026#39;t be tolerating it from them, so they KNOW those women are the ones that will just sit and take it.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EDon\u0026#39;t be that woman. Don\u0026#39;t chase him down. Don\u0026#39;t sit and wait to be fed crumbs. There are many WONDERFUL, emotionally mature men that are relationship-ready out there. Give THEM your attention. Because an investment like that will actually yield you the results you\u0026#39;re looking for.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ELook at it like this, like a business investment -- you\u0026#39;ve got a house that needs condemned, and a new home that\u0026#39;s ready to rent. And you\u0026#39;ve got $100k to invest in a rental property. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHe\u0026#39;s the house that needs condemned. An emotionally mature man is the house that\u0026#39;s ready to rent.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EWhich one do you think is worth your $100k investment?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EPut your time and energy into ONLY those that are deserving of it :-)"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/7909063294651635161"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/7909063294651635161"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html?showComment=1623074404883#c7909063294651635161","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5461896356784916048","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/5461896356784916048","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 7, 2021 at 10:00 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5879379064823857228"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-07T09:59:37.371-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-07T09:59:37.371-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"@Huge Fan,\n\u0026quot;I am sick to my stomach at how I’..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"@Huge Fan,\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u0026quot;I am sick to my stomach at how I’ve been played for a fool.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EDon\u0026#39;t be. It doesn\u0026#39;t take a diabolical mastermind to fool others. It just takes some ill will and bad intent to do so. He\u0026#39;s not some brilliant shining star that\u0026#39;s got an intellectual leg up on everyone. He\u0026#39;s just an emotionally immature dude that\u0026#39;s seeking validation (ego-boost to his manhood) from outside sources (because he\u0026#39;s secretly insecure and doesn\u0026#39;t feel good enough inside).\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EWhen someone, man or woman, needs a new \u0026quot;injection\u0026quot; of validation from a new outside source of supply all the time ... it\u0026#39;s a HUGE red flag that they\u0026#39;re emotionally immature, emotionally unavailable, and treating dating as a competitive sport - as in, \u0026quot;Let\u0026#39;s see who I can suck the life out of today in order to make myself feel better. Who\u0026#39;s gonna\u0026#39; fill me up today. Becuase I sure as hell cannot do it myself. I don\u0026#39;t have anything going for myself to make me feel good about myself. So who\u0026#39;s gonna\u0026#39; supply me with some attentiion today to do that for me.\u0026quot;\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThey are CO-DEPENDENT on SOMEONE ELSE to make them feel good about themselves.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIt\u0026#39;s a game. A sport. A competition. Who can beat who. Who can win first. Who can use who first. And after that, who\u0026#39;s next. These are signs of an emotionally damaged individual. And someone who doesn\u0026#39;t know the first thing about what it takes to be one half of a healthy relationship. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ETo people like this, others are just things to them. Things they use to get their needs met so they can feel better about themselves. And they MUST get that validation from OUTSIDE sources (new women all the time) becuase they are not \u0026quot;whole\u0026quot; or happy with themselves on the inside already. They don\u0026#39;t know how to make themselves feel good. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003ESo they become CO-DEPENDENT on constant validation from outside sources (new women all the time) in order to feel good about themselves.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIt\u0026#39;s a vicious cycle and one you want nothing to do with, trust me. It\u0026#39;s a personality disorder - narcissism. And it\u0026#39;s ugly:\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003Ehttp:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2021\/03\/dating-a-narcissist.html \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EContinued ..."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/5879379064823857228"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/5879379064823857228"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html?showComment=1623074377371#c5879379064823857228","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"The Mirror of Aphrodite"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15689196498901454883"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gfe72RG88xQ\/UaFFo_9WcVI\/AAAAAAAABqw\/l04AHaMURx8\/s113\/google%2Bplus%2Bavatar.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5461896356784916048","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/5461896356784916048","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2090063569"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 7, 2021 at 9:59 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-8802599088539787349"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-05T18:19:43.208-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-05T18:19:43.208-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hi Mirror, looks like I’ve doged a bullet. \nAlthou..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hi Mirror, looks like I’ve doged a bullet. \u003Cbr \/\u003EAlthough I still feel wounded. \u003Cbr \/\u003EHe’s on WhatsApp having a marathon chat with another girl . ( like he used to do with me till the early hours) \u003Cbr \/\u003EAfter I suggested he call me when he had free time ( last Wednesday it’s now Saturday) just silence. \u003Cbr \/\u003EI felt him withdraw some weeks back , I guess he started talking to someone else. And now I’ve demanded he step up , he’s dissapeared. Although I’d be surprised if I never hear from him again. \u003Cbr \/\u003EI am sick to my stomach at how I’ve been played for a fool. \u003Cbr \/\u003EI’m not cut out for this dating it’s too painful. \u003Cbr \/\u003EAnd how boring to have to wait 3 days to message someone back because they took 3 days . \u003Cbr \/\u003EI can see why it’s important but if they make me feel this shit then it’s not worth responding. \u003Cbr \/\u003EBut they are clever they groom you to like them for a month while they are also doing it to others.i guess to see who is easiest to get into bed. \u003Cbr \/\u003E:-( \u003Cbr \/\u003EHuge fan\u003Cbr \/\u003EX "},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/8802599088539787349"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/8802599088539787349"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html?showComment=1622931583208#c8802599088539787349","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Huge Fan"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/17136121535141992979"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5461896356784916048","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/5461896356784916048","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1567862952"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 5, 2021 at 6:19 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-415327293769411967"},"published":{"$t":"2021-06-05T10:34:32.769-04:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2021-06-05T10:34:32.769-04:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Hi Mirror ,\nI suggested he call for a chat when he..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Hi Mirror ,\u003Cbr \/\u003EI suggested he call for a chat when he was free after he replied in one minute to my text asking me a question. But no response and its been 2 days of silence. If he calls, do I not answer and call back in as many days as it took him to call? or do i text back and tell him im free to chat if he is? \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EWhat amount of time is respectful for him to go silent, considering longest hes gone without text communication in a month is 2 days. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHe could have replied sure i\u0026#39;ll give you call when im free or something! But just silence? \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EHuge fan\u003Cbr \/\u003EX"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/415327293769411967"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6096783791137245127\/5461896356784916048\/comments\/default\/415327293769411967"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html?showComment=1622903672769#c415327293769411967","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Huge Fan"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/17136121535141992979"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/www.mirrorofaphrodite.com\/2013\/02\/courtship-dating-benefits.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6096783791137245127.post-5461896356784916048","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6096783791137245127/posts/default/5461896356784916048","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1567862952"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 5, 2021 at 10:34 AM"}]}]}});